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Looking for your soulmate
Please read ubefore you respond.
Are you 35+ to 45 ish?
Are you single( not married, separated, in a relationship)?
Youre not a narcissist, self absorbed, sociopath or a psychopath-basiy you care about others and go out of your way to help out a friend in need
You are the guy that your friends always come to for advice
Youve put the past behind you-Meaning youre not obsessed with your ex, not pinning away about the one that got away, how someone treated you wrong or a mistake you made
You dont have any so you can dedicate enough/ time energy on yourself and your partner
Your life is not centered around making money, you have a full well-balanced life, you view money just as a tool to have the life experiences that you want
You are not looking for a hook up, friends with benefits situation any type of casual/meaningless dating
Youve dated and now at the stage where youre emotionally mature, available looking for something worthwhile and meaningful to invest your time in; To be with someone who supports you, believes in you and inspires you to be the best man you can be
You dont have a problem picking up the phone once in a while to hear the other persons voice
Your actions and words are aligned -You mean what you say and you always keep your word
Youre often ed a gentleman the guy who opens doors, treat women with respect and treat your partner like the lady that she is
If so keep reading if not thank you for your time but Im not what you are looking for. Good luck with your search.
If you fit the then read on .
Im in my upper 30s, single, no , never married, based in the city, well-educated, active, have a life style, have varied interests. Appearance wise petite, athletic a bit on the skinny side, brown skin, black hair.
I want to create a relationship where we are emotionally, sexually fully available and open to each other and are open to learning, exploring, discovering love and life together.
To do this we need to be able to trust each other, respect each other, open to each other fully, love, accept, support each other.
And of course there should be physical attraction and intellectual/emotional/social compatibility as well.
Im not saying that this happens over night its a process that takes time. Im merely looking for someone who wants this eventually.
I need a lot of personal space. So I dont get along well with clingy ppl who are anxious to be in a relationship and wants to jump in to a marriage. I think its for two ppl to have separate lives/interests but of course there should also be a shared commitment to making time for a relationship while supporting each others paths.
If theres that mutual understanding, respect and love I believe things will flow naturally in a relationship but definitely would want to start slow and build that strong foundation before we jump in too deep.
And why post something like this on CL you ask when it usually gets such a bad wrap. Well, why not?! Its as good as any other place to meet someone as long as you weed out the crazies. ;) Ive been on dating sites and the guys there seem to be so cookie cutter and dont seem to have any personality. I like the risk takers, adventurers and ppl who know what they want and at least willing to figure it out.
So if this resonated with you, say hello and tell me about yourself (age, appearance, interests, where do you live, what made you respond to this ad, whatever else you want to share with me)
Please do not send me pics with no details.
Also Im not looking for a pen pal or a text buddy be prepared to meet soon if we hit it off.
Thanks for reading.
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Charming girl for sweet fun. 
Looking for a FRIEND
Hey ladies, I'm looking for an buddy to chat with. First off, let me say I'm not skinny, so if you care about that in a friend, I'm not the guy for you. I'd like to find someone that I can have good conversations with, not just hey what's up and then silence. I'm on the spectrum, but high functioning. I mention that because I don't always socialize like everyone else, but I do well. If you are still reading, me! 
